I write a letter every day

Introduction

Letter writing is the only device for combining solitude with good company. — Lord Byron

Today, I’m going to talk about one of my favorite things: writing letters. I try to write a letter every day, which might seem like a lot, but considering Lewis Carroll wrote, on average, seven letters a day, it’s basically nothing. People often ask me about letter writing, how to get into it, and what to even write in letters. This article hopes to provide an insight into why letters are important, why they’re not outdated, and how you can start writing letters.

Today’s article is kindly sponsored by Future Me, a platform that lets you write letters to your future self.

Why I Love Letter Writing

Letters capture a moment in time. They store and preserve thoughts, and they share these thoughts with the recipient, even if they are miles or weeks away. Liz Stanley, a prominent epistolary scholar, states that letters, like photographs, hold memory and represent the moment of their production. I agree with her but think letters go a step further. While photographs capture what the world looked like, letters capture how we see the world.

One can go into archives and hold a letter written a hundred years ago, reading it just as the recipient would have read it. Letters connect people, creating intimacy despite physical separation. The act of writing and receiving a letter feels more intimate because the writer and the recipient often know each other personally.

What is a Letter?

In its simplest form, a letter is a written message from one person to another. Scholars have struggled to define letters due to their broad nature. Letters come in many forms, including postcards, condolence letters, calling cards, text messages, and emails. Stanley suggests that this wide variety is why letters often don't receive much attention within literary scholarship.

A letter is written in a moment and transferred to someone else. It’s usually between two people who are physically apart, turning into a physical object that moves between them. Some scholars call letters a dialogue, but I believe that is too simplistic—letters are much more than that.

Who to Write to?

People often ask me who to write letters to. I suggest writing to anyone you want to say something to. Start with a reason—why do you want to write to this person? It could be to share a memory, ask a question, or reflect on an experience.

What to Include in a Letter?

There isn’t a strict rule for what to include in a letter, which is one of their beauties. Here are things I usually include:

• Reflect on the Current Moment: Describe your surroundings and thoughts.
• Discuss Difficult Topics: Address topics that are hard to discuss in person.
• Compliments: Provide words that the recipient can treasure.
• Questions: Engage the recipient by asking questions.
• Memories and Thoughts: Reflect on shared memories and go on tangents of thought.

Historical Importance of Letters

Letters provide insights into historical figures' thoughts and relationships. They capture real voices and authentic relationships. Letters from historical archives offer a window into the past, showcasing emotions and connections, especially during significant events like wars.

For example, transcribing John Jermaine's letters from World War II revealed his longing and love for his family, capturing real-life relationships.

Why You Should Start Writing Letters

1. Build Connections: Letters can create strong bonds, especially with people you’re distant from.
2. Mental Health: Writing letters is a form of journaling that benefits mental health.
3. Show Love: Receiving a letter can make someone feel loved and appreciated.

How to Write a Letter Step-by-Step

1. Read the Letter: Open it when you have time to respond thoughtfully.
2. Write on Plain Paper: Use your favorite writing tools.
3. Decorate: Add stamps, watercolors, or washi tape.
4. Decorate The Envelope: Make it look appealing.
5. Take a Photo: Capture the letter before sending it.
6. Seal with Wax: Add a final special touch with a wax seal.

In conclusion, writing letters is a meaningful and intimate form of communication. Thank you to Future Me for sponsoring this article. If you want to start writing letters, consider writing to your future self using Future Me.

Keywords

• Letter Writing
• Intimacy
• Future Me
• Epistolary Scholars
• Archives
• Reflective Writing
• Historical Importance
• Personal Connections

FAQ

What makes letters different from other communication forms?

Letters capture the way we see the world, not just how it looks. They are personal, intimate, and preserve a moment in time.

Who should I write letters to?

Write to anyone you want to communicate with—friends, family, distant relatives, or even your future self.

What should I include in a letter?

Reflect on your current moment, discuss difficult topics, give compliments, ask questions, and share memories and thoughts.

Why are letters historically important?

Letters provide genuine voices from the past, capturing real relationships and thought processes, giving insights into historical events and personal lives.

How often should I write letters?

There’s no set frequency; write as often as feels meaningful to you. Some write daily, while others write for special occasions.

By incorporating letter writing into your routine, you will find a unique and rewarding way to connect with others and yourself.

I hope this article inspires you to pick up a pen and start writing. Happy letter writing!